Ive never had anyone get close enough to my homeworld to test it, but I generally keep fighters in single, large, unarmed PDC's, then I will have 2-3 fairly stout missile launching PDC's, with only backup active sensors, then multiple (4-5), smaller, very cheap dedicated sensor PDC's, with nothing but sensors. If I have meson technology, I will have point defense PDC's with meson cannons, otherwise, some orbital platforms with gauss cannon.
Everything that can fire has a backup active sensor, but I rely on ships first for actives (if any are around), then smaller dedicated sensor PDC's.
NPC's will generally "see" active sensor platforms first and attack them first.
This way, the PDC's that are actually capable of firing generally get targeted last.
Again, this is untested, but seems logical.