Size 1 for AMM
Majority of the time, 4-6 for my standard missile series.
Size 8 for larger missiles.
Size 18 for Heavies and Mines.
I try to keep things standardized to ease the (very real) burden on the logistical infrastructure. Having lesser numbers of missile series/standardized launchers helps. I used to mix them up more, but the logistical nightmare that gave me convinced me that multiple missile sizes in the fleet constitutes a Really Bad Idea. Modern world navies standardize their weapon platforms for this exact reason!
Standard missiles go on everything. Ships, fighters, FACs, you name it. I usually have one primary ASM series, a second "sprint" series for short ranged combatants with limited sensors (fighters, mines, ect), and usually a series with Thermal based sensors. They make for great mine/mirv warhead missiles and for surprise attacks.
Size 8s go on PDC's and big ships for long range hitting power. I do build some Size 8 launcher armed FAC's for one shot punch squadrons occasionally. Very long range, very heavy warhead, armored as well.
Size 18 goes for mine layers (captor mines) with very slow rates of reload, or Box Launched BIG Missiles. Size 18s are usually where I have multi-role missile designs. Tend to be MIRV designs, slow, long range, and fitted with two or three submunitions.