I have been reading this thread, and want to play too, but no time. I barely managed to start one first game, where I got to cruisers over the last weeks until all around me joined into one alliance. My territory is pretty expansive even without any war though. Actually the largest in existence - why is the AI so slow at colonizing?
Well, it seems if I would start war now, I will be crushed, even though I have 11k fleet and all the members hopefully only 3-4k like I see all the time.
Also: Should have taken that xenophobic trait, because letting xenos live and be rebellious, and not my smart industrious super-species, is annoying.
Anyways, it seems there are some rather large management issues to the game, like it befalls pretty much any real time strategy, but otherwise: I anticipated to be secretly bad, but it is not.(as far as I can tell) No Aurora, and no Caveman to Cosmos in space, but fun, and lots of novel concepts.